Celebrating Anniversaries and Birthdays in Berlin

There are celebrations that have something melancholic about them. Anniversaries fall into this category. Round birthdays are also suitable for minor keys, at least if the guests—or above all the host or hostess—lean towards this musical tone. The reason often lies buried in the past, which is often the focus of attention. Looking back Anniversaries and birthdays are often taken as an opportunity to look back. Festive brochures or presentations usually depict a journey from nothing to a rosy present. This creates heroes and myths. All well and good, at least for those who understand this narrative. But what happens when an individual realises that this sketch does not correspond at all with their own life path? That the claim “everything is possible” does not apply to their life? When it becomes a standard they were unable to meet? Looking back exposes this pursuit of ultimate happiness and leads to the opposite. We say: Be honest with yourselves—you deserve it. And you also deserve to celebrate with the people who are dear to you. Looking back can be a very beautiful thing, even if the anniversary celebrant or birthday person is not at the peak of their career. For those who always have the jackpot in sight, every win becomes nothing. That’s why our recipe is: Life is about ups and downs—enjoy it and celebrate anniversaries and birthdays simply and honestly. In a major key, not a minor one.